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1. Learn as much as you can about the symptoms and treatments
for anxiety disorders.
2. Support your relative's medication and
treatment program.
3. View your relative's anxiety behaviours,
as symptoms not character flaws. Remember that your relative
is a person with a disorder, but who is healthy and capable
in many other ways.
4. Do not participate in your relative's
anxiety behaviours (for example: avoidance of certain situations
or unusual compulsions), and explain to your relative that
you are doing this to help support their treatment program.
If you have fallen into the habit of participating in the
anxiety behaviours, it will take some practice to change back
to more normal behaviours.
5. Maintain a normal family life. As much
as possible, do not allow the anxiety disorder to take over.
6. Keep communications positive, direct and
clear. State what you want to happen rather than criticizing
your relative for past behaviours.
7. Keep calm. Avoiding losing your temper
will contribute to a positive atmosphere.
8. Combine humour with caring. Support doesn't
always have to be serious. Respectful humour can help your
relative detach from his or her symptoms.
9. If there are children in the home, explain
that their family member behaves this way because he or she
is sick with an illness, and reassure them that they did not
cause it.
10. Depression can accompany an anxiety disorder.
Learn the warning signs of suicide and make an emergency plan
that includes these phone numbers: your relative's psychiatrist
or family doctor, emergency services and the police. If possible
make the plan with the assistance of your relative.
11. Take good care of yourself. Creating
a low stress environment for you by seeking and accepting
support, cultivating interests that are just yours, and taking
a little time out each day to recharge your batteries will
give you the energy to support your relative.
12. The most important thing to remember
is that life is a marathon, not a sprint. While you are doing
the best you can to provide support to your relative, you
will sometimes find yourself accommodating to anxiety behaviours
before you realize it. Try not to be judgmental toward yourself
when you fall into old routines, in the same way that you
try not to judge your relative. Just start again
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